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We hope that this letter finds you healthy & happy!
1999 has passed in the kind of blur that only four young children can induce. We are all
doing well, but find it hard to believe the year has passed so quickly and with such impressive
growth in our children. Our first anniversary with the boys was in September. They have
now experienced the cycles and rhythms of our Canadian year and we are enjoying deepening
bonds and a shared family history.
Lauren, who will turn five in February, has impressed us all with her growing
independence. Once a “Velcro baby” who couldn’t separate from Mom, she now sails into
nursery school with absolute confidence, maintains a busy social calendar, and even gave us
“permission” to take a weeks’ vacation without her (more about that later). In addition to her
active social life, Lauren also enjoys her time home with Mom where they can work on projects
without the constant interruptions of her siblings. She continues to enjoy gymnastics and is
looking forward to kindergarten and the expanded opportunities available to five year olds.
Biniyam, now six, is repeating kindergarten (full‐time this year) as we felt he was
not ready for the rigours of grade one. Academically, he is performing well and no longer
complains that school is “too tricky”. Socially, he has found the adjustment more difficult, but
we have worked closely with his teachers and have seen him grow into a much happier and more
confident child since September. He is bright, loving and full of deeeeeep questions! He has
been attending gymnastics, but plans to give cross country skiing a go after Christmas. The
boys (all three of them: Biniyam, Gosaye & Dad) are enjoying Beavers together.
Gosaye, seven, is doing very well in grade one. He was rather astonished by the
more serious, academic tone of “real” school. “Why me no play???” he asked when he arrived
home after his first day. He has settled in well, though, as he loves school and is an absolute
sponge for new ideas and information. His quick mind and abundant enthusiasm win big points
with every teacher he encounters. We have been thrilled to see him beginning to read just one
year after he held his first book. He has been enjoying swimming lessons, but also plans to try
out cross country skiing after Christmas.
Meghan, who will be eight next month, is excelling in grade two, reading
everything in sight and generally growing up too quickly! She is very much the big sister,
usually kind and loving, occasionally frustrated, always seeking a bit more privacy. She
develops elaborate plans for building a wall to divide the girls’ room, but always crawls in beside
Lauren when it is time to turn out the lights. She is now a Brownie and has been swimming
twice per week with the swim club. As if that wasn’t enough, she also started a weekly club
with several friends where they shared favourite books and undertook intricate applications of
nail polish. After Christmas, she’s planning to take gymnastics and art lessons.
As it was obviously too quiet in our house, we added to our menagerie of four children and
three birds by adopting a dog in February. Sasha is a four‐year old, long‐haired Chihuahua (or
ouchihauhau as Lauren says). He’s got some anxiety problems and was never successfully
trained. After many months and various approaches, we’ve given up trying to house break him
so he now wears little pants to catch the occasional accident. This allows us to concentrate on
eliminating more serious stuff like nipping at joggers. For all his eight pounds, he stands up to
anyone, and is especially suspicious of men. He is very loving with the kids and small enough
for even Lauren to handle on a leash.
What about that vacation? Last month we enjoyed our first child‐free week since we
became parents. Leslie’s sister, Andrea, bravely flew out from Saskatchewan to take care of the
kids. Assisted by brother Mike on the weekend, she masterfully kept the kids alive & happy and
the house standing. We were able to enjoy a fascinating week in New Orleans with excellent
food, great music, fascinating historical sites and not a care in the world. The relaxed
atmosphere of the French Quarter made for a stress‐free week beginning with our first
hurricanes in the courtyard of Pat O’Brien’s. (Hurricanes? Pat O’Brien’s? You’ll have to
check it out for yourselves!)
We also enjoyed a great vacation in August, spending over a week at Leslie’s family cottage
on Lac La Ronge. The kids always enjoy the natural setting of the island & beach and of course
the attention of their grandparents, uncles & aunt. We, of course, enjoy the time off!! We
travelled home through Pinawa, Oakbank and Winnipeg where we spent precious time with far
away friends and family. Another vacation highlight was attending the Canadian Advocates for
African Children annual picnic in Minnedosa. CAFAC is the organization that helped us adopt
the boys. There were ~14 Ethiopian children at the picnic, as well as other adoptees,
“home‐made” children and their families. The boys were amazed to see the Ethiopian kids and
we feel it was valuable for them to meet other kids “like them”........and see that no one would take
them back to Ethiopia as Biniyam sometimes fears.
Andrew’s work life continues to take interesting turns. During the early part of the year,
he was busy juggling his responsibilities of managing an R&D group while filling in occassionally
for his boss who was on extended sick leave. Then, just as things were returning to normal, he
was asked to take on a new position as the Director for R&D Planning. The job came with a
promotion and less travel, but his workdays are more unpredictable. Andrew is enjoying the
challenges of trying to gain support for R&D in an environment of funding pressures, but misses
the interactions of line management and the involvement in technical matters.
Leslie is enjoying more freedom now that three are in school full‐time. She is still
volunteering in everyone’s classrooms, but has arranged to spend at least one afternoon a week
entirely alone in her sewing room. Helping mothers to breastfeed with La Leche League Canada
remains her volunteer priority, but the kids’ schedules seem to keep her busy with contributing
to bake sales & the like. Still, a bit of personal time goes a long way in helping her feel like she is
beginning to get her own life back after several years of being devoted to meeting the needs of
babies, toddlers and, finally, preschoolers.


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